evaluating communication

we  all have unique communicating styles some are more successful than others, i believe that what i have learned from this week is how to read more in to my  the way i interact, listen, present my self or others. i was always aware to how i should percent my self or to how other might perceive me through my verbal and non verbal communication skills .

I think that i was evaluated in a very similar way to how i  did it could as a result that they are both my family members and lived with for a long time, and had experienced many communication patterns and situations  with each other. i learned from this week that how you perceive your self and your self concept reflects in the way you communicate with others verbally or nonverbal additionally i hope that i can improve on my communication skills and on the levels of intimacy with others in order to reach a constrictive communication process.

 

nurmeen

 

 

communicating differently

I asked my self the question do i really communicate differently with different groups or cultures?  surprisingly the answer was yes, i found that i most likely act in tow to three different way if not more depending in the group of people or culture i interact with  for example since i am have Pakistani and half Arabic i find my self acting differently within the Pakistani culture according to their costumes of behavior , believes, respect and conduct than when it comes to the Arabic culture as the are more loud, assertive, private, mean while the Pakistani culture is more clam , relaxed, more  intertwined family relationship.

Therefor i find my self basically adapting to both of the cultures, finding a common ground of a third culture of my own , i accept both culture in addition to those two culture i also communicate differently in the american culture which is totally different than both the culture in many aspects  fro example how much faster past of life is in the american culture , how more complex it is, time restrained, and more even when it comes to communication with colleges, student thus our communication will differ depending on the culture ,situation, environment, individuals and so on.

No sound

For this week i chose to watch a new show that picked of the internet i usually watch foreign translated shows so this one was new to me it was very interesting . the show is about a lady who is a nurse that was raised in an orphanage and now is engaged to a very famous and rich doctor. In the start the doctor seemed to be very caring and loving to her since his facial expression would always show both of them smiling  and touching continuously they seemed very happy with each other .

As the episode develops the female actress goes to her work place and seems to be talking to a particular other female at hospital from the scene she seemed to be in a close relationship with this female as they were talking intensely  with each other with some amazement look on the friends face from the conversation they were having.

The main character the nurse seems to be having some trouble with her fiance later on in the episode as she showed some distress his her behavior by physically appearing upset and what seemed t be yelling after she had meet some lady who came and spoke to her for few mints that other character seemed as she was afraid trying t tell her something and what she had told her was troubling as the main character facial expression changed.

I believe that the two main characters have a nice relationship but as they seem to be fighting all the time over something since i could not know the relationship seemed not to continue , After tuning the volume on i found out that they were happy in the beginning of the episode but towards the main female character was told by the other female that her feansa is not the person she thought he is that he is abusive and he will hurt her if she stays with him . Apparently she did believe her and that is what she was taking her friend in the hospital.

I think i some what understood what the plot of the show but there is always different going on in these shows as they have a surprising changes in them.

nurmeen

communication

communication

The individual who i mostly admire and think has great communication skills is the late King Hussein of Jordan of my home country, King Hussein had the ability to address any individual politician , educated , or just the most simple person of his citizens he always had the ability to make his citizens feel that he knew each and every one of them.  It was well known in my country that king Hussein would go out driving on his own around the country to check on the welfare of the citizens ask about their needs it was kind of a fairy tale but he did my parents actually meet him two times that way and it was amazing that he remembers them as he asked my mother about my father by name that is a great skill for some one who was in his position. He was well known that if any one would meet him he would make sure to get to know you even in the few mints he spoke to you as my husband recall when he meat him as a student.

On the political side he was a great leader had great relationships with almost every country you can even search him on line if you are interested the king had great abilities to solve conflicts, bring people together, and when he made a speech  he made sure that every one understood him from the highest person in government to the common man .

I wish that i would be able to have some of his communication abilities and learn from his legacy as a great leader he was and i think the current king his son is attempting to be the same i hope that you guys would have some time and read about his fro a little .   this is  a link if you would like to read about him www.kinghussein.gov.jo/biography.html.