stress in children life’s

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i chose to write about the experience of a friend of mine it is a very sad true story, my friend is an Moroccan Italian nationality she was born in Morocco  and was abandoned by her mother to never see her again, the sad part that my friend was left with a family by her birth mother and they raised her in morocco up to almost three years and to my amazement she remembers that they used not to give her enough food nor good cloth as their biological children. then after a while she was taken by one of the family members and her husband to Italy where she was mistreated by the women husband verbally and physical with no protraction from that women, then when they had their own child the husband asked his wife to chose between her or him that’s when they sent her to an orphan. she says that life in the orphanage was so much better than living with these people since she had to go and stay with them in the summer and there they would hit her use her as a child made and so much more horrible things that made my heart break for he but at the same time i have so much respect for her since she made something of her self she was strong and continued fighting for her self and moved from that house as she turned eighteen and went to a culinary school and became a chef . she is now married with three beautiful girls , there is much more to my friends story but the main fact that my friend went through different stress in her life such as violence, hunger since they did not feed her well, with all this she did suffer from depression and is being treated, it is very sad what many orphans go through it is heart braking.

Chose to talk about hunger in the middle east specifically in my home country Jordan, in Jordan their are many people who live in poverty and i know this from my personal experience as my parents used to help many needy families when we lived in Jordan, but the sad fact that their is nongovernmental  program  or organization that deals with needy families. The helping system is a society based system where well off families and even middle class families help unfortunate families, though their are so called organization that help feed the hungry in the middle east which i never heard of except of UNICEF which only help a certain population of Palestinian families but not Jordanians. I researched about organizations that feed the hungry in the middle east and found one called world food program USA which i never heard about.

Many of these underprivleged families in jordan dont send their children to school becouse they make them work at a young age and suffer from family violance, althoug the jordanin govement does not have the services nor the finacial ability to help their citizans help comes from the sociaty.

10 Ways Daddy Can Support Mommy Breastfeeding!

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i totally agree with you that daddies must help mothers but unfortunately i did mot have the experience my husband never did do any thing with the excuse that he is afraid to hurt the baby, but it was too much work for me and i was very tired i hope that many more daddies would help their wife’s more .

nurmene al rashdan

Brest feeding

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i picked breast feeding as the topic of my interest, here in the states not many women like to breastfeed and if they do they do it only for about six months of the infants age according to the CDC  breastfeeding report cards only 47 percent of women would breastfeed until the age of six months and 27 percent would continue to the age of one. as for what i know about breastfeeding from my back round it is very important for most middle eastern women to breast feed up to the age of two and it is demanded from society and culture for health reasons for the infant and the mother.

breast feeding is a very important part of the healthy development of any infant it helps to lower the risk of diabetes, ear infections , obesity, it is also very beneficial for the mothers it reduces the risk of breast and ovarian cancer. i support breast feeding as a mother if three children my self and i believe that if any child can continue to breast feeding up to the age of two should.

nurmeen al rashdan

birth esperiance

Giving birth and pregnancy is an amazing experience , i loved having my three children they mad my life complete. I had all three as c sections it was hard but i came through, the feeling that you have when you know that you are pregnant never changes it is always a mixed feeling of happiness and concern for your unborn child.  But in my case i was some what unfortunate and fortunate i suffered in all three from sever depression and tried not to get medicated but i had to i went through phases of crying silence and many other emotions and felling but i was fortunate that i have a great father that is a very good psychiatrist who helped me through all my pregnancies i was very lucky in this manner because i also suffered from postnatal depression  which was very difficult for me and my family but thankfully we got over it .

in many other countries prenatal and postnatal depression is not taken in mind for pregnant women i have a personal experience with that since i lived for a period of time in Jordan and Saudi Arabia. pregnant women them self do even know that they are suffering from such case one family friend that i remember had more sever encounter with prenatal and postnatal depression she even become suicidal but at that time no one new what was wrong they did not factor pregnancy and that every time she got pregnant she become more depressed. In Saudi where i got pregnant with my second child the doctors did not ask me about my mental pregnancy history they just assumed that i was mentally of psychological fine the same case with other patients also but fortunately i had my father  monitored me during my pregnancy.

I think that this problem is very high in other countries and in the united states it is consider as a routine check for all mothers to be asked about their emotions how they feel about their pregnancy have they suffered from depression during pregnancy or not and i am thankful for that or i would not be able to take care of my children.